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The Stepmom Survival Shop

Hi, I'm Cameron!

CEO of Stepfamily Solutions · Certified Stepparent Coach · Host of The Stepmom Diaries

I'm the CEO of Stepfamily Solutions, a Certified Stepparent Coach, and a family dynamics researcher who specializes in blended families. What I really do is give blended family members language for what they so often feel but can't explain: stepfamilies run on a completely different set of rules, and nobody handed them the rulebook.

But I didn't start here. I spent 23 years in politics, first on Capitol Hill, then leading policy strategy at two of the world's top movie studios. Then I became a stepmom of four, and I saw firsthand how few real tools existed for stepfamilies like mine.

So at the peak of my career, I walked away to build the company I wish I'd had.

Through my coaching, events, and podcast, I've helped thousands of stepmoms and stepfamilies, and I train coaches in the top stepfamily coach certification in the U.S., an expert-endorsed program I created.

I hold a JD from Emory University School of Law and am completing my Master's in Clinical Mental Health Counseling at William & Mary, where my research focuses on how applying first-family logic to stepfamilies causes real, measurable harm. I have presented my research on stepfamily dynamics at the International Association for Relationship Research conference in Glasgow, Scotland, I serve on several non-profit boards, and I've been named one of the Washington Business Journal's "Women Who Mean Business."

Cameron Normand, CEO of Stepfamily Solutions
Is This You?
This is for you if…
  • You're a stepmom who's tired of advice built for first-family, birth-mom situations that don't fit your life.
  • You're looking for research-proven tools and strategies, not just random advice.
  • You're ready to feel less alone and more in control of your role in your blended family.
This isn't for you if…
  • You're hoping for a magic fix that takes zero effort or honesty about your situation.
  • You believe your partner, the kids, and the ex are the only problem.
  • You're not open to trying a new approach to the stepfamily dynamics you're living in.

Real people. Real stories.

★★★★★

Cameron's insight is invaluable to the stepmom community. Her vulnerability and honesty is admirable. She's helping to change the narrative about the stepmom experience, and I'm here for it!

Jamie Scrimgeour
★★★★★

Cameron has a wonderful blend of experience and humility. She has it all thought through, but admits she doesn't have it all figured out yet. She offers great perspective, sound advice, and welcome humor.

Kelly
★★★★★

Cameron has a real, down to earth and positive approach to put you back in the driver's seat of your own reality, how you respond to it, and how you show up every day. For yourself and for your family.

Amber
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The Ultimate Stepmom Bundle
Your Complete Stepmom Game Plan
Everything You Need. Nothing You Don't.

This is where I'd point most of you. The bundle includes the Stepmom Success Blueprint, the Stepfamily Financial Survival Toolkit, plus two exclusive self-care resources you cannot get anywhere else. All of it for less than the cost of a single therapy session.

  • The complete Stepmom Success Blueprint, the full 42-page guide to boundaries with the ex, discipline, household systems, and self-care $149 value
  • The complete Stepfamily Financial Survival Toolkit that walks you and your partner through every money conversation blended families face $89 value
  • The Stepmom Self-Care Assessment that pinpoints exactly where your energy is running low so you know where to focus first $37 value
  • The 20-Minute Stepmom Self-Care Plan that helps you build a realistic self-care routine you'll actually stick to $37 value
Total value: $312  |  Yours today for just $97
$97
Get The Ultimate Stepmom Bundle for $97

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Say It Out Loud: The Stepmom Conversation Playbook

You've said the right thing before. You planned it, kept your voice calm, led with your "I" statements, and it still blew up in your face. That's not because you chose the wrong words. It's because stepfamily conversations run on rules nobody ever explained. This playbook gives you the actual words for the five hardest stepmom conversations, plus the pattern underneath them, so you know what to say even when real life goes off script.

  • A complete 27-page digital playbook with the actual words for the five hardest stepmom conversations: with your partner, the ex, your stepkids, and the people whose comments you never know how to answer $50 value
  • The Three Beat Structure (Opening, Hold, Recovery) that shows you the pattern underneath every hard conversation, so you can build your own words for the ones you couldn't have predicted $40 value
  • The Backup Conversation script that helps you ask your partner for support without making them feel they have to choose between you and their kids $15 value
  • Recovery lines for when each conversation goes sideways, plus the three moves that rescue any conversation, so one bad ten minutes doesn't turn into one bad week $20 value
  • The Write It, Then Cut It method for answering texts from the ex without getting pulled into the drama $15 value
  • Two scripts for the moment your stepchild says "You're not my mom": one for what you say out loud, and one for steadying yourself afterward $15 value
Total value: $155  |  Yours today for just $29
$29
Get Say It Out Loud for $29

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The Stepmom Success Blueprint

This is the resource I built for the stepmom who is done white-knuckling it and ready for an actual plan. Boundaries with the ex. Discipline dynamics. Household systems. Self-care. It's all in there, built for stepmoms, not adapted from a first-family model.

  • A comprehensive 42-page digital guide packed with practical strategies, exercises, and expert guidance to help you confidently navigate stepfamily life $79 value
  • The "Dealing With the Ex" framework with scripts and boundaries for the hardest relationship in your stepfamily $24 value
  • The discipline playbook that shares how and when to step in without overstepping $16 value
  • Household systems templates for chores, meal planning, and packing across two homes $14 value
  • The stepmom self-care starter that shows you exactly how to protect your peace so you don't burn out $10 value
  • Practical exercises and reflection prompts to help you apply what you learn to your own family $6 value
Total value: $149  |  Yours today for just $49
$49
Get The Stepmom Success Blueprint for $49

Instant download. If it's not what you hoped, just reply and we'll make it right.

The Stepfamily Financial Survival Toolkit

Blended family finances are complicated in ways most advice never accounts for. This workbook walks you and your partner through the financial conversations most blended couples never have but absolutely should.

  • A comprehensive digital workbook that walks you and your partner through the money conversations most blended couples never have but absolutely should $43 value
  • The Financial Values conversation guide that helps you and your partner uncover what you each believe about money and finally get on the same page $12 value
  • A full financial audit with step-by-step assets and liabilities worksheets so you can see your complete picture and make sure nothing important gets missed $12 value
  • The "To Merge or Not to Merge?" decision framework that lays out three clear approaches so you can choose the right setup for your family with confidence $10 value
  • The children's expenses worksheet that helps you map out exactly who pays for what, so there's no confusion or resentment down the road $6 value
  • The "Do You Need a Prenup?" guide that walks you through what to consider so you can make an informed, protected decision $6 value
Total value: $89  |  Yours today for just $29
$29
Get The Stepfamily Financial Survival Toolkit for $29

Instant download. If it's not what you hoped, just reply and we'll make it right.

Questions
I'm a brand new stepmom. Is this too advanced for me?

Not at all. In fact the earlier you have these tools the better. Most stepmoms spend their first year or two learning the hard way what these resources could have told them on day one.

I've been a stepmom for years. Will I learn anything new?

Yes, I believe you will. But what I hear the most from experienced stepmoms is that it's not always about learning something new. It's about finally having language for what you've been living, and a real plan for what to do next.

What if I'm not sure which one to get?

Get the bundle. It's the best value by a long shot, and it gives you the Blueprint, the Financial Toolkit, and two exclusive self-care resources in one place for $97.

How do I get it after I purchase?

Instant PDF delivery to your inbox, no waiting, no shipping. It's yours to download and keep forever.

Can I start with just one resource instead of the whole bundle?

Absolutely. Every resource stands on its own, so you can start wherever you feel the most pressure right now. That said, the bundle is the best value by far, and it includes two self-care resources you can't get any other way.

I already have the Stepmom Success Blueprint. Is the Playbook different?

Yes. The Blueprint is your big picture plan for stepmom life. The Playbook goes deep on one thing: what to actually say when it matters most, and how to recover when it doesn't go the way you hoped. They work beautifully together.

My stepkids are older, or already grown. Is this still for me?

Yes. These tools are about your role, your boundaries, and your peace of mind, which matter at every stage. The dynamics don't disappear when the kids grow up, they just change shape.

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Here's How We Help

Component #1

Content

Weekly Members-Only resources

New tools every single week to make your stepfamily life more livable, including coaching, expert interviews and practical resources like scripts, worksheets, and more.

Component #2

Education

Your Stepfamily Success Path

Take our quiz to learn where you are on your success path, then learn the action steps to implement and build the life you want for your family.

Component #3

Community

you are not alone

Get to know other stepfamily members who are in similar circumstances - through our secure portal and app, completely OFF of social media.

Component #4

Discounts

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Get deep discounts on additional coaching packages, events, and courses - not available anywhere else!

Real people. Real stories.

"I did not realize how hard being a stepmom was going to be and had no clue about all the resources that are available. Beth and Cameron go above and beyond to really impact stepmoms' lives by having amazing speakers and presentations.

Casey

I love getting to spend time with Cameron and Beth and the other stepmoms. It really helps to hear others having similar problems. And I've really enjoyed the book club and expert presentations.

circle member

I’ve always felt left out of the “mom club” as a stepmom. I now feel like I am part of an amazing tribe of women who are so strong and make a difference in their families everyday.

katie